Sample Chapters ⁽⁵⁾

Shy Preschoolers Don't Need "Fixing!" If someone calls your child shy, you might not take it as a compliment—but maybe you should. After years of working with shy children, I’ve learned that shyness isn’t a flaw, and it doesn’t need “fixing.” It’s simply a personality…

Don't Ask Preschoolers to Say "Sorry." If you’ve ever tried to make a preschooler say “Sorry,” you’ve probably seen them mumble it into their chest or say it cheerfully, as if they just won a prize. That’s because young children don’t grasp what an apology…

Embrace Your Child's Unique Journey. Watching a child reach their milestones is a thrill. First steps, first words, using the potty like a pro—each one feels like a tiny victory. But along with that excitement comes the urge to compare. It sneaks in at the…

No One Gets Angry for No Reason! Anger is a normal part of all our lives—and of course, that includes the life of your preschooler. It can be hard to watch, especially when the outbursts are loud, messy, and (most embarrassingly) public. It falls to…

It’s REALLY Hard Being Good All Day. You pick up your child from daycare (or a playdate) expecting cheerful chatter about their day. Instead, you get whining, tears, or a full-blown collapse! If this sounds familiar, the good news is that your child isn’t the…